This might surprise you, but I’m a fan of rules. The rule that says I should drive on the correct side of the road is a good one, because following that rule makes it less likely I’ll run into an oncoming truck. I like the rules about saying please and thank you, because it feels […]
Why I’m not excited about the July 2019 Leo “Black Moon”…
Allow your emotions, or reach for the better-feeling thought? – the conscious creator’s emotion dilemma can have you feeling like a cat on a hot tin roof.
There’s a quiet, invisible thief who can undermine all our best efforts to create the life we want. Coaches have special names for this invisible thief. It’s sometimes called “payoff” or “counter-intention”. It refers to the idea that we might be getting some kind of benefit from NOT getting what we want. Huh?? A payoff, […]
Do you know what the source of happiness* is, or how you can choose happiness*? If you’ve been playing with LOA for long, you probably have a good idea. But maybe you have family or friends who still think happiness* is an outside job. And maybe, just sometimes, you fall into the same illusion. I’d […]
What is scripting and how does it work? This practice is not just a woowoo airy-fairy technique – it’s a piece of hardcore brain re-wiring that can deliver a whole new experience of reality. Highly recommended.
A while back, I became aware that I had zero capacity for full-on, utterly unapologetic desire. Hubby would ask where I wanted to eat tonight – and I’d say ‘I don’t mind, what do you want to do?’ Or I’d stand immobilised in the takeout place, staring at the board trying to decide whether to […]
My beloved father died in June 2010. The week before his death was an extraordinary gathering of family and friends at his hospital bed, where we cried and laughed and reminisced. I watched my Dad minister to friends who came to visit, and stood in the doorway shocked by how close to death he was; […]